Who Am I?
Updated: Jul 27, 2018
I said that the reason I started this blog is for people to get to know me. So here it goes.
I'm one of those people who emulate those around them; so if I’m with someone who is really outgoing then I’ll be outgoing and if I’m with someone awkward then I’m awkward! I’m sure/hope I’m not the only one who feels this.
I think there was a study done showing that the 5 people you hangout with the most you become, which I think is very true. So you have to choose your friends wisely!
However, because of this, I feel like I don’t fully know who I am as I feel like I am copying everyone else. I know who I want to be and I’m sure of my principles and what I want to achieve, but I am constantly worried of what people will think and that can stop many people from fulfilling their potential.
People reading this may think “what is she on about” or “she seems fine to me” and I am fine but I’m insecure with sharing these insecurities (ironic right). I think it’s got to do with the British stuff upper lip where people pretend everything is fine but really their life is falling apart. I’m not at that stage, don’t panic, and I think society is changing for the better but it will take its time.
This may be me worrying about nothing but I’d like to know if anyone else feels this way.